I had a random funny conversation with a dear friend earlier. I told her I was wondering why guys can't figure when girls are not interested, and most especially when they are. Well, probably, the girl is a bad communicator. It's a little harder here in Asia because interpersonal communication here is more of a receiver oriented, unlike in most Western countries where the sender of the message is responsible in being a little straight forward so that the receiver will get the message right.
Anyway, I guess what I am trying to point out here is that we don't always have to keep what we feel inside. Culture, tradition, and beliefs might hinder us from doing so, but who cares? More often than not, it's a matter of now or never. We are all afraid of the outcome, but I tell you, living with a a lot of "what could have beens" give you a heavy heart. Always.
And with that, I pray that I have always been expressive with what I think needs to be expressed. ;)
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